7 Reasons Fathers Should Expect a Restraining Order
By Restraining Order 911 | March 1st, 2009A restraining order is issued in America every 32 seconds. If you are a father going through divorce, believe it or not, a restraining order or a false protection order against you is most likely in your future. If you are hit with a restraining order, you could lose your freedom, access to your children and your money without even knowing that it was happening.
How do I know this?
It happened to my father — My parents got divorced when I was two years old. Out of revenge, my mom intentionally kept my dad out of my life. I never knew my own father. He missed me growing up. I am sure this sad fact influences my actions to this day.
And, most recently, it happened to me!
When my ex-wife served me with a fraudulent protection order, it was as if I was attacked while blindfolded with my hands tied behind my back. I didn’t see it coming and when I was hit with a divorce and a restraining order that prevented me from seeing my children – I felt helpless.
So, why would my Ex do such a despicable thing to me and our children you might ask?
1. Your ex will want to end the relationship and come out as much of a “winner” as the law will allow (and believe me, it will allow a LOT!) I’m sorry to say it but our legal system is often manipulated in favor of women. If the husband was an actual abuser in any way, then yes, a restraining order should be served. If he actually committed a crime then he should be criminally charged and the kids taken away from him immediately. Unfortunately, this isn’t always the case and many innocent fathers are faced with fraudulent protection orders or restraining orders and dragged needlessly through the court system.
2. Your ex and her lawyer will want gain an advantage in a divorce. Many immoral divorce lawyers routinely advise women to get a restraining order so they can win custody, higher alimony and much more. That is exactly what my ex’s lawyer did to me.
3. Your ex will want to quickly get custody of your children without a hearing. Yes, this is possible! Moreover, your ex-wife can actually have a secret hearing that you are NOT even allowed to attend.
4. The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) provides Federal funding for the States to set up “professional victims” groups, whose sole purpose is to discriminate against men and perpetuate the stereotype that men are abusers. That’s even if we are good, innocent dads in a bad marriage. This act financially incentivizes the “Divorce Industry” to take unnecessary actions against innocent fathers.
5. Your ex will simply watch you suffer because she’s angry. I went through nearly 2 years of restraining order hell because my ex was simply angry with me. Because of this, I was continually subjected to criminal prosecution. My ex actually went so far as to tell all of my children that I did not want to see them even though I was prevented from doing so by the restraining order. It took me four (4) court hearings just to re-establish visitation with them while all that time my ex was telling them that I just did not want to see them. To this day, despite everything I have done to get them back in my life, I am sure they still believe her lies to a certain extent.
6. Your ex will want to control and manipulate you. Many ex-wives want you to beg for their mercy. As a caring father, you don’t want to be kept out of your children’s lives. You don’t want to miss their basketball games, softball games, martial arts competitions, and dance recitals. You don’t want to miss their birthday parties and their graduations. You don’t want to miss watching your children grow up. If you don’t have the proper knowledge, women can hang your children that you dearly love, your financial independence and your freedom over your head to get whatever they want from you.
7. Your ex will want to stop you from modifying custody after your child expresses a desire to live with you. To make sure my children felt unloved by me my wife didn’t let me buy them any gifts. She never answered my phone calls. I was threatened not to show up when my son was very sick and in the hospital, even though he asked for me to be there at his side. And, she told them lies about me. My oldest son didn’t speak to me for 11 months because of her lies.
These are just seven out of thousands of motives that women have to get a restraining order against innocent fathers. Now I wrote this article for one reason – and only reason only. I want to prepare to you for the inevitable. I didn’t think it would happen to me – yet it did and because I was unprepared, I went through 20 months of restraining order hell.
Because, I don’t want that to happen to you, I encourage you to get my FREE eBook: “Root of All Evil Part 1: How the Divorce Industry Steals Kids Away From Innocent Dads” Get it now at www.RestrainingOrder911.com
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January 9th, 2010 at 12:08 am
My name is Joseph Goldberg and I am a consultant helping parents and lawyers
with cases that involve Parental Alienation and Parental Alienation Syndrome. I have
assisted people with cases in the USA, Canada, the UK and other countries around
the world.
I would like to know if you could give me some exposure on your website to get the
word out that I can help people with these problems. I also offer a free consultation
to anyone that wants to call me.
Please take a minute to visit my website at http://www.ParentalAlienation.ca
I am also the Founder of the largest organization in the world that deals with the mental
health problems involving Parental Alienation Syndrome. My organization is called The
Canadian Symposium for Parental Alienation Syndrome and you can visit our website at
http://www.Cspas.Ca
The purpose of the CSPAS is to host educational conferences for lawyers and mental
health professionals who want to obtain a better clinical understanding of parental
alienation and parental alienation syndrome. This is a widely recognized form of child
abuse.
The conference that we had in the Spring of 2009 at the Metro Toronto Convention Center,
made the FRONT PAGE of the National Post Newspaper on March 27, 2009. It was also
widely covered by numerous TV and Radio Stations around the world. You can read our
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In the work I do, I also assist the public in finding the right lawyers, mental health
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It is very difficult, not only for parents, but for lawyers to find the right mental health
professionals to conduct psychological assessments, psychological evaluations and
deprogramming of children afflicted with this disorder. I can help.
Any parent litigating a case in court involving parental alienation SHOULD HAVE a
consultant with an expertise in parental alienation giving guidance to their lawyer. If they
don’t, there is a very high probability that the case will not be effectively presented to
the Judge and their legal costs will get out of control.
In fact, many clients that seek my assistance as a consultant have found out about
me only after they have had two or more lawyers that worked on their case, and with
little changes to fix the problems they’ve been through.
What I am looking for is a hyperlink with perhaps an article or interview with me posted
on your website, something to help people reading about parental alienation to truly
understand that there is someone out there who not only ” gets it ” but can offer them
solutions that can assist. I always hear people say to me, ” you’re the first person that
I’ve talked to that truly understands my problem, I wish I had met you a yeat ago or two
years ago when this whole thing started to come up, you could have saved me so much
heartache and money. ”
When people go to a lawyer looking for help, they don’t understand very few lawyers
know what to do to effectively litigate these type of cases. If I could only get more
exposure on your website I could do more to help others. I am also a father that has
experienced this problem personally, if you read my Biography on my website
http://www.ParentalAlienation.ca you will see that I conquered this problem as a parent.
I also experienced this problem as an alienated child.
I want to thank you in advance for giving this matter your special consideration.
With Kindest Regards,
Joseph Goldberg
Goldberg & Associates
Tel: 905-481-0367
http://www.ParentalAlienation.ca
Founder of the CSPAS
Tel: 647-476-3170
http://www.Cspas.Ca
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